Well actually, I have something in mind that I would like to share with you people about what I think. Basically, this is my opinion on how I look at it. I'm not saying I'm right nor wrong because everyone has their different views about everything.
So, let's just refer to the title of my post for today. "When We Talk About Love, We Talk About Jealousy."
Does love and jealousy come in a pair? Is jealousy a bad or a good thing? What are the consequences of jealousy?
When there is love, definitely there is jealousy. I can't really say that it comes in a pair, but jealousy comes when we love a person truly. I'm sure each and every one of us felt it before. But then, to some of the people out there, jealousy is something that they able to control so, SO well. Are you people pulling my leg or something?! How on mother earth do you people actually control that?! But no matter how you're able to control, I'm sure that feeling has passed through your lives before. Looking at how I respond towards the people that's able to control their jealousy, I'm sure you people know that I ain't someone that know how to control it. :P
As for me, myself and I , jealousy has always been a part of me when it comes to love. The slightest thing, for example, a text message is already able to trigger those jealousy sensors in me. Oh my goodness gracious me! Am I normal or am I abnormal?! Why Jasmine, WHY?
Ah well, I guess I'm normal just like any of you guys. This happens because we just care so much about the other half and we love them so much that we are able to feel that jealousy. It is somehow a good thing because we are able to show our other half how much they actually mean to us. I used to be a person that keeps all my jealousy inside me and I hardly show it. But I've realized that by keeping it, that will not make our love grow any stronger and it only hurts me inside. Plus, the other half might even have the thought that we don't actually care about anything because we don't show that we actually do. Then what is the point if we be with somebody and we don't express our feelings to them isn't it? Ain't gonna bring any goodness to both parties. So, when we express, this is when our other half should play their part to be able to understand how we feel when those sensors are triggered.
Communication is one of the few keys that has to be in a relationship. Why? That's because, if we can't communicate well with our partners, that clearly shows that there's no understanding between each other. We need to understand each other, which is also another compulsory key, in order to start loving a person for who they are. We are only able to help our other half to change for the better if it's within our hands. But, we do not have the rights to force them to be what we want them to be. Love someone for who they are and not for what we want them to be. So, when issues like this are brought up, there will definitely be a way to to solve this problem. Jealousy ain't a big matter if we are able to solve it using our brains wisely. But jealousy will ruin any relationship if things were not settled in a proper way. So in a way or another, communication and understanding are two important keys in a relationship.
But sometimes, jealousy can really be a motherfucking bitch to us right?! Heck yes! It could just make us feel so insecure and we start to over think about all the possibilities that could happen. And this is dangerous! If we let jealousy control us instead of the other way round, that might put us in trouble. Always remember to keep calm, think straight, have faith and talk with respect towards the other half so that it wouldn't hurt each other's feelings. Never let our partners feel like as though we are being a control freak but instead, show them that we really do care a whole lot and that's the reason why jealousy comes into the picture. And somehow, that will be able to ease the situation and the love will grow stronger day by day.
Well, to me, this is a little bit of my views about jealousy. I admit, I myself can't handle it at times. It just goes over the limits. To the other half of mine, I am truly sorry if I have ever made you feel like I was being very possessive towards you. I really didn't mean to make you feel that way alright. I just care and love you. Simple as that.
Anyways, a relationship consist of ups and downs, so why worry isn't it? We learn through out the times we be together and that is what matters the most. We learn to understand and to love one another. All those mushy and sweet memories will be able to kick jealousy's ass off! :D
Alright people, it's the end for this post and stay tuned for the next! Remember, don't let jealousy be a bitch to you. Learn to understand and communicate with one another for a happy love life and I can assure you that jealousy will turn out to be something sweet instead! Hahaha!
Goodnight! :)
As for me, myself and I , jealousy has always been a part of me when it comes to love. The slightest thing, for example, a text message is already able to trigger those jealousy sensors in me. Oh my goodness gracious me! Am I normal or am I abnormal?! Why Jasmine, WHY?
Ah well, I guess I'm normal just like any of you guys. This happens because we just care so much about the other half and we love them so much that we are able to feel that jealousy. It is somehow a good thing because we are able to show our other half how much they actually mean to us. I used to be a person that keeps all my jealousy inside me and I hardly show it. But I've realized that by keeping it, that will not make our love grow any stronger and it only hurts me inside. Plus, the other half might even have the thought that we don't actually care about anything because we don't show that we actually do. Then what is the point if we be with somebody and we don't express our feelings to them isn't it? Ain't gonna bring any goodness to both parties. So, when we express, this is when our other half should play their part to be able to understand how we feel when those sensors are triggered.
Communication is one of the few keys that has to be in a relationship. Why? That's because, if we can't communicate well with our partners, that clearly shows that there's no understanding between each other. We need to understand each other, which is also another compulsory key, in order to start loving a person for who they are. We are only able to help our other half to change for the better if it's within our hands. But, we do not have the rights to force them to be what we want them to be. Love someone for who they are and not for what we want them to be. So, when issues like this are brought up, there will definitely be a way to to solve this problem. Jealousy ain't a big matter if we are able to solve it using our brains wisely. But jealousy will ruin any relationship if things were not settled in a proper way. So in a way or another, communication and understanding are two important keys in a relationship.
But sometimes, jealousy can really be a motherfucking bitch to us right?! Heck yes! It could just make us feel so insecure and we start to over think about all the possibilities that could happen. And this is dangerous! If we let jealousy control us instead of the other way round, that might put us in trouble. Always remember to keep calm, think straight, have faith and talk with respect towards the other half so that it wouldn't hurt each other's feelings. Never let our partners feel like as though we are being a control freak but instead, show them that we really do care a whole lot and that's the reason why jealousy comes into the picture. And somehow, that will be able to ease the situation and the love will grow stronger day by day.
Well, to me, this is a little bit of my views about jealousy. I admit, I myself can't handle it at times. It just goes over the limits. To the other half of mine, I am truly sorry if I have ever made you feel like I was being very possessive towards you. I really didn't mean to make you feel that way alright. I just care and love you. Simple as that.
Anyways, a relationship consist of ups and downs, so why worry isn't it? We learn through out the times we be together and that is what matters the most. We learn to understand and to love one another. All those mushy and sweet memories will be able to kick jealousy's ass off! :D
Alright people, it's the end for this post and stay tuned for the next! Remember, don't let jealousy be a bitch to you. Learn to understand and communicate with one another for a happy love life and I can assure you that jealousy will turn out to be something sweet instead! Hahaha!
Goodnight! :)
